Life wasn’t meant to be experienced alone

Seated with Strangers is a private community for women who want real connection and meaningful conversation.

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Adults need villages and this is your space to be seen heard and considered while being curious in your city with Strangers that become your people.

I’ve always been the connector in my circles, bringing people together and introducing friends I knew would connect. My go-to phrase was always, “You two should meet.”

But life shifted. When I moved away, I found myself starting over without a community of my own. That experience made it clear how difficult it can be to build meaningful relationships as an adult.

When what you’re looking for doesn’t exist, you don’t wait. You create what you need.

That’s how Seated with Strangers began!

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Why Seated with Strangers Exists

Many of us want deeper connection but don’t know where to find it or how to start. Especially as adults, community can feel fragmented, forced, or out of reach.

Seated with Strangers was created as a softer entry point. A place where showing up alone is normal, conversations go deeper than small talk, and connection is built with intention.

This beta season is about building that foundation together.

WHAT’S INSIDE OUR COMMUNITY

As a Seated with Strangers Founding member, you’ll receive:

BUILDING COMMUNITY

  • Private community group chat. Intentional conversations.

  • Monthly virtual group sessions that cover money talk, culture, & lifestyle.

  • Reduced pricing for specific events along with priority access to travel, and merch

OUTSIDE WITH STRANGERS

  • Monthly in person meetups that are created with you in mind.

  • Intentional experience within your city. We support local.

  • Group Travel for getaways.

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CORPORATE STRANGERS

  • We collaborate across the table. Whether you’re in a traditional role or building something of your own, this space is for honest conversations, shared lessons, and “I wish I knew this sooner” moments. Experts share their journey and you get to ask the questions.

  • Coworking

what our community is saying

what our community is saying

  • "Shivawn was an amazing host—welcoming, thoughtful, and intentional in creating a space where everyone felt comfortable. I truly enjoyed meeting the other ladies and learning about their stories. The discussion cards sparked meaningful conversations that encouraged us to open up in ways that felt natural and genuine. In a world where digital connections are so common, Seated with Strangers felt like a big, refreshing hug—reminding me of the power of face-to-face connection.

    —Porlan

  • "SWS is an experience like no other. It's a feeling I can best describe as safe. And the conversations did not disappointment! The beauty of having built in questions to ask at the table it takes the pressure off to come up with something interesting to say to complete strangers. "

    —Whitney Hall

  • "Your creation of SWS is such a needed part in the lives of women. To have a safe space to be vocal, learn, grow and sow into others is a blessing. I'm sticking to my thoughts..."this needs to be monthly".

    —Danya

Meet Shivawn

a filmmaker, storyteller, and community builder rooted in the belief that meaningful connection can change lives. A Virginia native and graduate of Norfolk State University and Wilkes University, she has built a career centered on creativity, mental wellness, and helping people feel seen, heard, and supported.

As the founder of Seated with Strangers, Shivawn designs intentional spaces, both online and in person. Where women gather to slow down, share honestly, and build real community beyond surface-level connection. Her work as a facilitator blends storytelling, thoughtful conversation, and lived experience to help strangers become community.

Shivawn’s work has been featured on PBS, Essence Festival platforms, Amazon Prime, and award-winning film festivals. She is committed to creating intentional spaces where people can show up honestly, be seen, and build real connection.

She lives by the belief: “If your dream only includes you, it’s too small.”

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